Write Cards. Show Love.
52 physical cards -handwritten and delivered- in 2019. That’s the goal.
It stemmed from a few things (1) inspiration from one of my best friend’s Jess -who always takes the time to write cards (2) a clear intention to connect more deeply and specifically to those I love and (3) a desire to integrate a handwritten communication method to complement all my digital email/text/messenger comms.
Cards are special, they are personal, and they can express all the things you want to say, that might be difficult to otherwise say in the moment. Cards are one of the best physical gifts of gratitude to friends & family.
Tips and Tricks in the Practice of Card Writing & Gifting:
Shop often (and shop local) for cards. I frequent Serendipity Card Store on Valencia Street in SF. They have a great selection of cards for all occasions. I pop in ~every 2 weeks to check out the new selection and replenish my collection.
Purchase cards because you love them and you know they will be useful someday….Don’t always shop for an immediate or specific situation. If you love the card, you’ll use it, eventually. Create a portfolio of occasion cards in your desk: Birthday’s, Gratitude, You’re fucking awesome!, I miss you, I love you, You matter, I’m sorry, Congrats!, That sucks, Shit doesn’t always have to make sense. With a collection of amazing cards on hand, you’re more likely to write a card for all different reasons.
Buy cards that are blank inside. You want your own voice and intention to shine through in the message. You’re a better writer than you know, and the person receiving the card wants to hear from you!
Ignite your love language. Tell people you love them, you are grateful for their presence in your life, that you care, that you’re sending them the most magical mermaid vibes -a personal favorite as an alternate to saying “sending prayers”. Practice being open, vulnerable and present in you writing.
Make the “create & send” process as frictionless as possible. Keep stamps, envelopes, self-addressed stickers and your community’s physical addresses on file. Writing, addressing and mailing a card shouldn’t take more than 10 mins.
So far I’ve sent over 40 cards in 2019. What started as an annual goal is, hopefully, transitioned to a lifelong ritual of showcase love & gratitude to my community. My nan would be proud. She always sent cards to those she thought needed a pick-me-up. And it’s an honor to carry this practice forward.
And while receiving cards in return is never an objective -when you cultivate a practice of thoughtful card writing to your community, you’ll probably get some thoughtful messages sent back your way :)
Much love and many cards, -Beckie
An inspiring, heart-felt and badass note from my friend Kerryn <3